Sometimes, people chastize me for being too “afraid” to give anyone a chance. Are you crazy? Fear will keep you safe. Fear will keep you smart. Fear will prevent you from handing your heart over to someone who will invariably break it. I do not believe in silly notions such as fate and destiny. I believe in statistical probability. If it ends up the same way time after time after time after time after time after time, you have to use common sense eventually. I mean, insanity can be defined as doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.

People cheat. Most of us cheat. The only ones who haven’t cheated  probably never had the right bait dangled in front of them. We are all selfish. We all value ourselves and what we want above anything else. Naturally, all cheaters are selfish, but some are even more selfish than others. I mean, if you cheat, take it to the grave with you. It makes sense, no? You’ve already done it. Eat the guilt. Where was your conscience when you were participating in the extra curricular activity? All of a sudden you have decided to become a decent person? Bullshit. Yet, there are some people who will confess everything. It is either a selfish attempt to rid themselves of the guilt, or the selfish desire to somehow have their actions validated and forgiven by their lover. It is selfish at any rate. The trust will never be mended, and everything will come crashing down. It is best to deny it to the death. You are sparing them the pain of knowing the truth. As much as they claim to want the truth, they don’t. We only want the truth when it doesn’t hurt.

“I may be an asshole, but I’m not a fucking asshole.”

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